Its all about loving yourself....

                                      Its all about loving yourself....

Bonjour les amis!! Hello friends!!

Was quiet a day today . The morning seemed so quick as if the sunrise was a surprise. Indeed the day was full of surprises , the bad ones though but things turned out well until the sunset.

Like usual people I don't really go philosophical with dawns and dusks! Its simple enough to understand. The stairs that take you up , bring you down, but coming down ain't a drawback! Later this afternoon I was feeling like there's nothing called confidence inside me.I felt like I was drowning in my own tears. Some mistakes, some spontaneous decisions caused me real harm. I thought I was sinking.

But there was some light too dim to notice. 

When we come to know that someone in the crowd really hates our existence we start questioning 'why'? Instead of doubting that person's disability to seek our worth , we actually begin to find our good selves. Well, that is not it! We also feel awful and at a particular point we have a life full of grudges. There's a real world around us full of haters I don't say good people don't exist but you don't meet angels everyday! Its hard to remember the good and the bad never flushes out.

So why not to just knock out the ones that hate you? Risk,yeah?? 

Here knock out means a little different. If we take a close look the fat lady could be pregnant. What I mean to say we need to focus deeply on the roots . if anyone hates you they surely have a reason. We genuinely try to act like monks saying the good will takeover the evil . Snap out of the fairly tale world there isn't anything positive about this. Each hater has a reason to hate you , what you need to do is to find a weak point of that hatred and hit the button hard. You need to just stop feeling pity about yourself and do what your hater hates the most about you.

What? Is it your smile that pins that heart? 

Keep that twinkling smile on your face. You don't need to prove anything to anyone. Just smile for your sake , have a little sympathy for the hater guy. Your success makes followers. We won't get anything by forgiving the evil doers if you want to show them the way to the church you've gotta step in the mud and act evil to kill the evil. That brings them down they will one day get tired of hating and learn to love themselves.

Noone necessarily has to love someone else to find their lovely side. Good or evil its all inside you. For once try to love yourself for the better things in you and scold yourself once in a while for the bad and mean thoughts that cross your mind. The dark sides we have is what we are born with. We are born with a different face with each passing year we notice the changes in our mind , soul and body. 

All we need to realise is that its never enough . loving and pleasing ourselves, scolding and hating ourselves, correcting our errors and rubbing our dark stones can make us a gem someday. 

So get up straight and count your positives you'll surely feel good about yourself undo the wrong and maybe you don't hate anyone in future and if you find a hating fan just remember to press the right button and the smoke would turn out to be a raining cloud.

A cloud with a silver lining !!!