Nothing wrong in loving the wrong person...

Love for some is a painting on the canvas of sky ..... Love for me is a painting on the canvas of water!!!

Bonjour les amis!! Hello friends!!

Poets, writers, philosophers all have defined love in their own unique way but as it is for me I think love is much more than a simple word which can be defined. Its too vast to be described. Maybe I fall short of words when I begin to talk about love not because I have loved people but because I have been loved by people. 

So many ways to love, to be loved, to merely share it, to act like you love, true love for a lifetime,fake love for some time, love that eases, love that hurts, love that makes you smile, love that makes you cry, love that makes you love and love that makes you hate! It's all infinite. We begin to feel love even before we come into this world and open our eyes. A baby feels the love of his mother when still in the womb, he can feel the love of his dad curious to see him , take him in his arms kiss him. We get and give love when we open our eyes into this world. Holding our mothers fingers, clutching our dad's shirt, smiling at the ones who pick us up in their arms, sleeping on our mom's lullaby, touching the wrinkled faces of our grandparents with those tiny hands, while crying to be picked up by daddy and screaming to be sung and danced by mommy. All of this is our first love. We get older start loving our siblings, then friends, then relatives by adolescence a boy or a girl, after being adults our husband and wife and finally our children and the cycle goes on always.

It takes moments to fall in love, years to express it, a lifetime to paint it out and more than one life to forget about it. Yes, its not only a lovely feeling but also an experience full of pain. And if love would have been all about smiles , no baby would cry when he came out of her mothers body, no woman would undergo the pain of childbirth just to bring a life into the world. The joy of love is nothing as compared to the pain it makes us go through. 

There's no such compulsion to be loved in return but is inevitable to fall in love. We can't ask anyone to love us back but we can surely expect. We surrender completely to the one person we want to share our life with. Ignoring all the negatives we embrace his positives because we have faith that we would turn those negatives to positives some day. Who cares if they don't notice your love ,don't love you back loving them become a duty . 

But is this right?? Loving someone who doesn't notice your love!! 

All of us deserve to be loved in return . But if the one you love doesn't understand your feelings he or she isn't worth loving. If the person has it he will acknowledge your love but if there's no trace of mellowness in his heart he can never develop love for anyone in this life. As I mentioned earlier love is not something that can be forgotten. You have to move on in life. If the person doesn't love you , you wait , govd it a try but when you see he or she doesn't care you have to move on someday. Only after you take your time but keeping in mind that this isn't the end. There's always a chance to take a U-turn or start from the start. There'll be a day when someone will love you completely to complete you , turn over your flaws and love you the way you are. 

This doesn't mean you have to forget your first love you have to let him be in that unique place of your heart which you made for him but you have to share this heart with the one who loves you. Love can never be washed out nothing can wash it out only an understanding to turn that person into a sweet memory of your life can ease and cure your painful heart. There will come a day when you stop noticing this locked box of your first love . 

Friends never try to forget the one you love always remember you loved that person for a reason once you try hating him you start questioning your own feelings and thinking. Love is indeed a paimting on the water surface once it reflects on the surface no matter how many stones you throw no current could break it or wash it away with the wave. It remains floating forever. 

There isn't anything wrong in loving the wrong person!!!!